Fear of Flying, by Erica Jong, Reviewed.

fear of flying

This book needs no more reviews; but I’m a compulsive reviewer, so here goes.

I’m of the generation the author writes about in this modern classic and found so many points on which I was able to connect that it was like making a visit to my early home. However, my enjoyment of the period was interrupted by events that excluded me from a lot of the freedoms of the time (No; I was in the armed forces, not in jail!).

I had obviously heard of the book and it was recently brought back to my attention by another writer. I thought it time I read the work. I’m glad I did.

At its best, literature can be formative. It’s perhaps a good thing I wasn’t exposed to the ideas within as a young man: who knows where such influence may have led me? One aspect of the book that is still relevant to a happily married man is the insight into the minds of women. Of course, this was a seminal work and much has changed, at least superficially, for women since it was written. Much of that change was probably driven by the ideas and themes covered by the book. I suspect that, had I come across the novel when younger I may well have lived a rather more wild life than I have. Whether that would have been a good or a bad thing is open to conjecture.

Erica Jong writes this novel as an autobiographical account that reads as authentic, and it does contain elements of her own life, though it isn’t by any means a real autobiography. Her beginnings as a poet are evident on every page; the language used is beautiful, evocative, full of imagery. She covers a huge range of literature in passing references and her knowledge of the world of culture and art is staggering for one so young at the time. With no internet to supply quick links and potted information, she must have been armed with her subject matter through experience and actual reading during the writing of the book. Shame so many modern novels lack this depth of personal knowledge and experience.

This is essentially the story of a young and vulnerable woman in search of herself, on a voyage to conquer her fears, which are many. It quite ruthlessly unmasks the pretentious world of the psychoanalyst and therapist; portraying these parasites as the leeches so many seem to be. There is sex and nudity aplenty, but this isn’t an erotic work; there’s no attempt to seduce the reader with her straightforward accounts of sexual encounter. Daring, unconventional, promiscuous and often superficial, these sexual adventures are often meaningless to the narrator but sometimes deeply significant. This latter becomes the case when she believes herself in love with the chosen partner. All other encounters are merely physical experiences undertaken as a means of escaping boredom, visiting revenge on a cheating partner, filling a void, or simply gathering a new experience.

This is a long, entertaining, thought-provoking and insightful read written by a woman who has been sometimes brutally honest in her narration, and I’m very glad I came across it. I suspect many men will find it a little scary and some women will be alarmed by it, but I’d say it’s a book that should be enjoyed by all adults.

4 thoughts on “Fear of Flying, by Erica Jong, Reviewed.

  1. I still haven’t got around to reading this. I suppose that I’m going to have to now carefully balance it on the top of the precarious, wobbly, ‘to read’ pile of books beside the bed…

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  2. glenavailable

    Thanks Stuart for your review and reigniting interest in this milestone novel. Erica Jong (who is now 74 and on her 4th marriage) released only last year another novel, FEAR OF DYING, that garnered widespread and notable praise from many corners of the literary community.(including a gushing endorsement from no less than Woody Allen) With your permission I include two reviews here –

    “Erica Jong has written a whip-smart, insightful, hilarious and ridiculously relatable new novel, Fear of Dying. In her latest novel, Jong revisits and renovates her old haunts. Destined to be called an instant classic, I could not put this stunning book down. In 1973, Fear of Flying was the book we needed; now the book we need is Fear of Dying.”

    —Julie Klam, bestselling author of Friendkeeping and You Had Me at Woof

    “Erica Jong fans, rejoice! Her new novel, the cleverly and aptly titled Fear of Dying, is a truth-teller’s dream. In it, Jong and her alter egos face life’s most difficult challenges, head on and all at once. As the great poet William Butler Yeats wrote, “the only two things worth writing about are sex and death,” and in Fear of Dying, Jong takes on both. Along the way, she also tells the story of a marriage that grows happier despite all. This wise book, written in prose gorgeous enough to make one swoon, will delight and enrich the lives of everyone who reads it.”

    —Rosemary Daniell, award-winning author of Secrets of the Zona Rosa: How Writing (and Sisterhood) Can Change Women’s Lives

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